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Helmut's avatar

Beautiful piece, Ken, so evocative. Appropriately, it triggered memories of spending summer of 1986 in Florence, where I was learning Italian in a fine language school as a part of a grant that the German government had generously supplied me with. I did as a 25 year old would. I fell in love, and I fell in love with looking at stuff; the two may in fact not be unrelated. Helmut

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Thank you. Speechless. Excellent. And it was in 1986 too....

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Jill's avatar

This was fantastic - but I need to know what you found that the cat eyed lady was protecting and what it means. I also want to know if your grandpa ever crossed paths with mine (he landed in Normandy too). All the places I never went? Too many. But I’ll get there someday.

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Leave it to you to ask the real question, bravo. I'll get you that answer, and more once, I play it out... Wow on your grandfather.. Wonder if they did cross paths?... Ray Dahlen, Gramps, then about 18 or 19 (imagine), would have been with a Canadian regiment (he complained about the manners of the Québecois!) stationed at Aldershot before they went over. I think I have their path --through France, then north etc, and eventually into Germany-- written down at home...They ran for a night and a day from their own bombers, one of his quiet stories. He was an excellent rhythm guitar player, jazz, and, the way he told it, his musical abilities and facility in the kitchen, got them through...

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Chloe Hope's avatar

Your gorgeous photography and artwork added a whole other layer to a piece already so rich, thank you Kenneth. My 1984 missing place is probably Laos, I bummed around South East Asia for a while in 2005, went to Laos for 24 hours, got super sick so headed back to Thailand as there wasn’t really a functioning hospital there then. I’ve been pining to go back ever since, though I’m sure it’s a whole different world there, now.

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Oh thanks so very much. So glad you appreciate this. Laos in 2005 sounds a close equivalent of yours, a "missing place," with a wondering "pining" just as you say.

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miter's avatar

I selected "Yes I'll comment" so now I really have to. Though, that may take away from the anonymity of the poll. Is this poll IRB approved?

I really enjoyed all aspects of it, Kenneth, great writing, pics and paintings. Along with the tale and the words, I especially like the moto-taxi picture and murals in the background.

The question of what got left off the agenda is a good one.

I guess this essay makes me think of the closest I 've been...in the Salta region of Argentina, not all that far from the Peru and Chile borders. It's in the Andes and it was one of my favorite trips, renting a car and traveling around that region. Some great wine, scenery and a James Turrell installation there altered my reality in a good way. But, so many places left off of Argentina and South America and would love to go back. Gotta do Patagonia.

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Thanks so much. Honoured you enjoy. The moto-taxis enchanted, and that photo caught me by surprise toooo. Oh lord knows what I’ve done with the poll. A million thnx for joining in to what will doubtless prove a one time venture.... But seriously, the question, no? Your re-collections of the other side of those Andes are gorgeous, tantalising, and thr here-and-now you made need to fashion a return. Meet up in Patagonia? (I've got in mind a couple of spots.)

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miter's avatar

Sound good, they probably need to open up a Pub somewhere down there. I could use some glacial living.

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

You're right. But if we don't watch it we'll begin diluting our thing, our estilo. You know. First Oxfordshire, then Milano, Venezia, Antwerp, Accra, Osaka... Patagonia. (But the glacial theme....)

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miter's avatar

Seems like a solid business plan to me.

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Sharron Bassano's avatar

Such a colorful adventure! I felt as if I were there with you. And those photos! Magnificent, Kenneth!

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Hey, grazie!

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Michael Stone's avatar

Ken, le temps perdu, many thanks.

Let's see, 1982-83, La Entrada, Honduras, uniformed 16-year-olds with M-16s wave you down, impromptu checkpoints that were really a way just to catch a ride with a UN vehicle to get home for the weekend, rifles pointed out the open window at the driver's deferential request, a flag-down you cannot decline. The sly, shy 10-year-old street urchin and her brother (?) who tugged at you whenever you stopped to tank up, score a bottle of Nicaraguan Flor de Caña (the two countries were practically at war but all could agree on quality rum), and savor a scalding bowl of caldo (pollo, papas, elote y aguacate) with fat tortillas fresh off the comal--sabroso--sure to leave a quarter bowl and tortillas behind for los patojos.

San Marcos, site of the largest Salvadoran refugee camp in Honduras; swimming in the Rio Lempa a short way from the El Salvador border; the depot yard where I spotted a yellow school bus still bearing the name of my suburban Philadelphia high school; the cantina international relief workers favored for the food, beer and music, and the night soldados borrachos, politely refused a dance by female members of the team, left sullenly and slashed all four tires of the (clearly marked) UN pickup parked in front.

Semana Santa in Copán, predawn processions, fireworks, the street tienda proprietor whose Latin dance music wafted across the plaza drowsy in the afternoon, amenable to share his musical afán with a complete novice, and the enigmatically verdant, nearly unvisited (so it seemed) Maya ruins a short walk from Barrio El Centro...

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

So many vivid moments, more like interlacing layers of experience, in this 1982-1983. Attentive to others. And rendered with such care and sensitive beauty. You write as you speak. I remember how you blew away Peter T J and me and others at Princeton, blew. Us. Away.

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Amy's avatar

I loved reading this, Ken! It brought back many memories for me as well :)

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Thank you so much. Do you have an equivalent?....

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Amy's avatar

I think I initially resisted my 1986 quite a bit. I remember I had gone to Arequipa with a plan of what I wanted to consult in the archive, an organized timeline etc. Maybe 2010 or 2011? The archivist didn't let me in, but I went back three or four days in a row to try. Finally, I gave up and took a multi-day hike through the Colca canyon and it ended up being one of my favourite experiences. It made me start to think differently about work and productivity, or at least expand the possibilities for me.... (I think I have quite a few Icas on my list too).

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Oh Amy I wish I could have helped you more with *those* obstructive GsaG.... To have got you to the Colca is no small thing, as you say, and growing still. Honoured to be with you all the way.

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El Greco's avatar

Tío! I may only have been a year old in 1986, but in some ways it wasn't so different: we moved, and moved again, and I'm thinking about that a lot now for obvious reasons. I wish I could've ridden these cabs with you in September but am glad I get to read and see your memories as consolation. Your kinship with the implement made my day!

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Gracias, Grec. I was the pencil.... But, choosing another year, what might have been your equivalent to what I described (of my 1986)?

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Mark White's avatar

This touches my heart. My 1986 was actually 1984, twice, once on January in South Africa and later in the year in Nicaragua. Those days of impoverished travel, when i thought nothingo if traveling with a 10 pound sack of boooks lto carry me through, come back to me nearly every day now. The chance encounters, the regrets of good-byes, the kiss I wish I had the courage to kiss...

Sometimes a Great Notion back then was to simply hit the road and let a stranger at a diner offer directions to a place that would lead to an amazing encounter that would chang my life, but more often it was to simply go with the flow and have faith that the road would eventually lead me where I was always going to go anyway.

Beautiful piece.

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Kenneth Mills's avatar

Wonderful stuff. Thanks for responding so richly. And for your good words.

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